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Spend, save, give: three jars

Your kid has a few dollars from a birthday card or chores and no idea what to do with it. In half an hour you'll have three labeled jars, a saving goal taped to one of them, and a weekly habit that takes two minutes.

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Time
30 min
Cost
$0
Ages
4 to 9
Where
Kitchen table

01What you need

  • Three clear plastic jars, cups or food containers with lidsHave
  • Tape or sticky labels and a markerHave
  • Their own money: birthday cash, allowance or chore money, in coins and small billsHave
  • A picture of what they're saving for: a drawing, or a photo printed or cut from an adFree

Where: Any table where the jars can then live on a shelf your kid can reach but a baby can't.

Before you start

  • Coins are a choking hazard. Most children who die from choking are under 5. Keep the jars lidded and up high if a baby or toddler lives in the house.
  • Watch the big kid and the little kid. Older siblings often hand small things to younger ones. Coins stay at the table.
  • Use plastic, not glass, so a dropped jar is just a mess.
  • The jars are theirs. Never take money out as a punishment or borrow from Save without asking. That's what teaches them the jars are real.

02Steps

  1. Label three jars

    TogetherWrite SPEND, SAVE and GIVE on the three jars. Pre-readers can draw a picture on each: a shopping bag, a piggy bank, a heart. Say: "Every time you get money, some goes in each jar. You get to decide how much."

  2. Pick a goal for Save

    KidAsk: "What's something you want that costs more than you have right now?" Look up the real price together and write it on a label. Tape the picture of it to the Save jar. Say: "Some things are worth waiting for."

  3. Pick who Give is for

    KidAsk: "Who would you like to help with this jar?" It might be an animal shelter, a food bank, a friend's fundraiser, or your family's place of worship if you have one. Let them choose. Write it on the jar.

  4. Split the money

    KidCount their money out on the table. Ages 4 to 5 can sort coins by kind first and count each pile. Offer a simple starting split, like one coin in Give, two in Save, the rest in Spend, then let them change it. Say the totals out loud: "Three dollars in Spend, two in Save, one in Give."

  5. Measure the goal

    TogetherDraw a line on a strip of paper from $0 to the goal price and tape it beside the Save jar. Color in how far they've got. Ask: "If you add a dollar a week, how many weeks until you get there?" Count the weeks on a calendar.

  6. Make it weekly

    DadPick a day, like allowance day or Sunday breakfast, for a two-minute jar check. New money gets split, Save gets counted, and the progress line gets colored. When Give is ready, go deliver it together so they see where it went.

03If it stalls

  • If they want to put it all in Spend, let them, once. Next time the toy they want is out of reach, point at the empty Save jar and ask what they'd do differently. No lecture.
  • If the goal is so far off they lose interest, pick a smaller goal they can reach in three or four weeks first.
  • If they ask to spend Save money on something else, ask: "Is this worth more to you than the thing on the jar?" Then let them decide. It's their money.
  • If they don't get money often, count chores, birthday cards and found coins. The habit matters more than the amount.

04Variations

Ages 4–5

Coins only, and sort them before counting. Keep the goal small and close, like a $3 toy. Draw the labels instead of writing them. The CFPB's early-childhood handout suggests games where kids match, sort and count coins.

Ages 6–9

Add bills and a real goal price from a store website. Let them set their own split and write it on the Spend jar so they remember it next week.

Two kids

Each kid gets their own three jars and their own goal. No comparing totals. Siblings can team up on one Give jar if they want to.

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05Sources

  • Saving and waiting, ages 3 to 5. The CFPB's Money as You Grow page on young children and saving suggests telling kids that some things are worth waiting for, and finding a jar or can, labeling it for saving and having them put some of the money they get into it to save for a toy or treat. Consumer Financial Protection Bureau Checked Oct 15, 2026
  • Spend, save or share, ages 6 to 12. The CFPB's middle-childhood handout says kids this age may get money as gifts and allowances and can decide whether to spend it, save it or share it, and advises parents to set ground rules and then let kids make decisions and learn from the consequences. Consumer Financial Protection Bureau Checked Oct 15, 2026
  • Coins as a choking hazard. The AAP lists coins among household items to keep away from infants and young children, says most children who die from choking are under 5, and notes many choking incidents happen when older siblings give small objects to younger ones. American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) Checked Oct 15, 2026
  • Coin games for young kids. The CFPB's early-childhood handout suggests games or activities with coins in which kids match, sort and count them, and helping young children learn to wait for things they want. Consumer Financial Protection Bureau Checked Oct 15, 2026

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Dad Field Manual · Field card 06 · MoneyIdea · not yet tested

Spend, save, give: three jars

Your kid has a few dollars from a birthday card or chores and no idea what to do with it. In half an hour you'll have three labeled jars, a saving goal taped to one of them, and a weekly habit that takes two minutes.

Time
30 min
Cost
$0
Ages
4 to 9
Where
Kitchen table

What you need

  • Three clear plastic jars, cups or food containers with lids
  • Tape or sticky labels and a marker
  • Their own money: birthday cash, allowance or chore money, in coins and small bills
  • A picture of what they're saving for: a drawing, or a photo printed or cut from an ad

Before you start

  • Coins are a choking hazard. Most children who die from choking are under 5. Keep the jars lidded and up high if a baby or toddler lives in the house.
  • Watch the big kid and the little kid. Older siblings often hand small things to younger ones. Coins stay at the table.
  • Use plastic, not glass, so a dropped jar is just a mess.
  • The jars are theirs. Never take money out as a punishment or borrow from Save without asking. That's what teaches them the jars are real.

Steps

  1. Label three jars. Label three jars Spend, Save and Give; little kids draw a picture on each.
  2. Pick a goal for Save. Choose one thing to save for, write its real price on the Save jar, and tape a picture to it.
  3. Pick who Give is for. Let them choose who the Give jar is for and write it on the jar.
  4. Split the money. Count the money, then let them split it between the jars and say each total out loud.
  5. Measure the goal. Draw a progress line from $0 to the goal beside the Save jar and color in how far they've got.
  6. Make it weekly. Pick one day a week to split new money, count Save and color in the line.

If it stalls

  • If they want to put it all in Spend, let them, once. Next time the toy they want is out of reach, point at the empty Save jar and ask what they'd do differently. No lecture.
  • If the goal is so far off they lose interest, pick a smaller goal they can reach in three or four weeks first.
Dollars in Save · weeks to goal
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dadfieldmanual.com/plans/three-jars · Sources: Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org)