Set a holiday gift budget with your kids
Holiday gift lists grow fast when nobody's counting. Give your kid a set amount and a sheet of paper, and in forty-five minutes they'll have a list of names, a price next to each one, and a running total they keep themselves.
- Time
- 45 min
- Cost
- $0 to plan
- Ages
- 6 to 14
- Where
- Kitchen table
What you need
- The gift money: their savings, money you give them, or both, in an envelope
- A sheet of paper for the gift plan, with columns for name, idea, price and spent
- A pencil and eraser
- A phone, laptop or store flyers for price checks
- Supplies for one handmade gift: paper, markers, a jar, things from the pantry
Before you start
- You do any online checkout. Kids pick, you pay. The FTC says to pay by credit card when you can, and a seller who wants gift cards, wire transfers or crypto is probably a scam.
- Slow down on "free" and too-good deals. Free offers and one-click buys can cost money without anyone noticing. Look the seller up together first.
- Keep receipts and order numbers. They help you get money back if something never arrives. Tuck them in the gift-money envelope.
Steps
- Set the amount. Decide a fixed total before you start, say it plainly, and put the money in an envelope.
- List the people. Your kid writes down everyone they want to give to and stars the ones that matter most.
- Check real prices. Write a gift idea for each name, compare prices in two places, and round up for tax.
- Make it fit. Add up the prices; if it's over, your kid trades ideas around until the total fits.
- Plan one handmade gift. Pick one person for a handmade gift, list the supplies, and set a day to make it.
- Track every dollar on paper. After each purchase, write the cost, subtract it from what's left, and cross off the name.
If it stalls
- If they want to spend it all on one friend, ask who'd be left off and let them decide. It's their list.
- If they come home from a store with an idea that isn't on the list, write it down and look at the total together before buying it.
Dollars left · names crossed off
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